My name is
Shao. I was born in a village in
Moldova, North-East Romania, and ever since I know myself I loved to climb
trees and play with sticks and bows in the forest. Every summer we also used to build tents out
of small trees.
At age 8, my parents decided to send me to the city to study in better schools.
Being very skinny and also coming from the countryside brought me a lot of
troubles with my school mates and with other people around the neighbourhoods I
was living in. Unlike other kids, I didn’t have a big brother or a cousin to
call in case of emergency. Actually, my big brother used to hit me as well.
So then, at age 9 I started to practice martial arts and fell in love with them
ever since. First time, I practiced Kwan Qi Do. I loved the black suits and all
the weapons that were displayed during trainings. Also, there were lots of kids
around my age there so I had a great opportunity to make new friends – only
this time we had more in common than just our school.
Unfortunately, I had to change schools quite often because my host families
couldn’t keep me for very long periods of time.
This way, I lost contact with the gym where I was training.
A bit later, when I was about 11 years
old, I went to practice rugby with some school mates, hoping that this would
make me stronger. I really loved rugby,
except that I was way too weak for those trainings and the body conditioning
exercises that were practiced there didn’t help me to get fit enough to
actually enjoy the game.
Soon after I turned 13, I found a Shotokan Karate Club where the trainings were
led by a riot police officer. Although this martial art style was non-contact,
the trainings were quite harsh. Sometimes, we also used to train at the riot
police headquarters which was an immense joy for us since we had the chance to
kick the military sand bags and some of the soldiers were always cleaning the
gym for us. I got into some quarrels in
school and in the neighbourhood and I noticed that my training was not good
enough for what happens in a real combat situation.
Happily, a friend of mine from Shotokan
had another friend who practiced Vietnamese martial arts – Vovinam Viet Vo Dao
and, after I fought with him, I was accepted to train with them during the
weekends in the local parks. We
exchanged lots of techniques there and I got to learn from them how to use the
nunchucks , which helped me escape and protect myself when I was attacked by
multiple opponents in my neighbourhood (a football team, to be more precise).
Together, we started to study Ninjutsu and Jeet Kune Do and we planned to bring
more training partners into our club, preferably from different martial arts so
we can exchange more skills.
As I wasn’t satisfied with my sparring performance, I decided to go to a Full
Contact Isshinryu Karate Club. This was the first time I actually became a bit
more confident when having to defend myself in real combat situations. This style was way more realistic, although
it wasn’t as fancy as all the martial arts movies we were watching. Here I also got the chance to practice Kobudo
and play with some traditional Okinawian weapons.
In the meantime, we gathered lots of other practitioners, from different kung
fu styles, aikido, boxing, to train and spar with during the weekends.
Soon, we discovered a Shaolin Club in our city and after I saw one traditional
form I totally fell in love with the style.
The form was the very first that was teached there: Wu Bu Quan – or five
stances boxing. As far as I know, this form was created so people can practice
the five fundamental stances from Shaolin, which would enable them to build a
strong body conditioning and to go to more advanced forms and techniques.
Although I didn’t want to leave the Karate Club, I had to choose between the
two, so I chose Shaolin.
I trained there for two or three years, until our master couldn’t manage the
club anymore due to lack of students. After our master left, me and my friends
continued to train together in the park, or in different other gyms and
exchange more knowledge with different other practitioners from different
styles – boxing, kickboxing, muay thai, kung fu, capoeira.
But, after I discovered Parkour, I left the martial arts trainings for a while
and got really crazy about climbing buildings and doing flips. This got me lots
of injuries, because although I was quite fit from the martial arts training,
at that time I didn’t develop a sustainable way of training, so many times I
used to skip the warming up and stretching was only practiced when I was too
lazy to do anything else. For about 6
years – during my Bachelors and Master’s Degree studies (Political Sciences
& Political Philosophy at the Al. I. Cuza Univesity from Iasi), I practiced
Parkour & FreeRunning.
Before finishing my University studies, I started practicing Capoeira, since I
felt very attracted to the anthropology researches about the South American
Indians and got very passionate about what was going on in that part of the
world. Capoeira was really fun and I totally fell in love with playing in the
roda. Finally, I was discovering a way to spar against people without knocking
each other out. Although it is sometimes perceived as more of a dance than a
martial art, capoeira has very practical techniques and it teaches you a very
important lesson which you don’t always learn at the traditional martial arts
schools and that is to move according with your opponent. During the
traditional oriental martial arts classes, we would practice a single technique
hundreds of times until we would get bored of it, but when in a fight we
wouldn’t know how to set up that technique and use it. In Capoeira, you have to
use your spontaneity more often and know the weak and strong points of your
body a bit more.
About that time, after I finished University and left Romania together with my
girlfriend in order to go and live in Amsterdam for the next 4 years, I decided that I have to continue practicing
martial arts for the rest of my life, as a main activity and I started to hope
that one day, I may be able to share all this with as many people as possible.
Although I was crazy about martial arts
ever since I was a kid, my parents soon forbade me to train as they didn’t like
the idea of me having such a strong passion, since this may hinder my school
studies. What they didn’t notice was
that ever since I started practicing martial arts I had better grades at school
and my body was getting stronger. I was generally happier, more satisfied about
myself and started to have more friends.
Living in the city and being from the countryside no longer made me a paria, it
made me special and blessed. Since at the countryside I was having just the
right environment and tools to practice traditional trainings and lots of my
training partners used to envy me for that.
Also, my general knowledge had expanded,
since with each martial art style I was encountering I was also learning more
about the geography and history of the home region of that martial art.
Unfortunately, I got a very bad ankle injury while doing a side flip – which
was aggravated by an elevator crash - and soon afterwards I was so unlucky
as to get some confusing skin irritations which
led me to anti-inflammatory pills and incorrectly subscribed
antibiotics. For the next 2 years I did all sorts of medical research and followed lots of pill based treatments
and even got into a failed laser surgery for haemorrhoids during a trip to
Romania. I had the feeling that I was
getting more and more sick with each visit I pay to the doctor.
So then, I turned from vegetarian to vegan, to get rid of all the toxic foods
and only use clean food. It was only then that I started to notice more the
link between what I was eating and how I was feeling and how much energy I had.
Also, I had to quit Capoeira, because I was in such a weak condition that
watching the games in the roda only made me more frustrated. I was so inpatient to get better as I was
just getting more skilful at playing in the roda. Capoeira didn’t have any
training for somebody like me – injured, stressed, sick.
Then I started to remember about Shaolin. I remembered there were some
exercises, called Qigong, which I never had the patience to do as a teenager,
although they seemed pretty cool back then.
These exercises are supposed to help you recover from injuries and
sicknesses and maintain your internal balance while healthy, as well as
strengthen your nervous and immune systems in order to prevent illnesses.
Slowly I started doing some Qigong every morning and every evening and got more
curious about it. I was very interested to see if it actually works or if it is
just a myth, or if it only works for the Shaolin monks as they may keep the
secrets for themselves and only show empty movements to the rest of the world. Many people regard Qigong as being
superstitious and they think that the benefits only come as a placebo effect.
So, since I was so disappointed with the modern medicine I was very eager to
test it. I also learned some Dao Yin Qigong
and other forms of qigong, but later on I sticked to Shaolin Qigong and
Tai Chi.
Then, I saw that there are actually a series of scientific researches performed
on qigong practitioners that prove the medical benefits of this kind of
training and that in China you can actually find a proper institute where such
ancient medical practices are studied and tested, so they can be used in order
to complete the conventional medicine.
I was recommended by my Shaolin teacher at that time to go and try Chinese
Acupuncture so I can heal my inflamed liver, the haemorrhoids, the urinary
infections and my injured ankle. At that point I was still very inpatient and
desperate to recover, scared that I may end up being crippled and dependent on
pills for the rest of my life. I can honestly say that the treatment I received
there saved my life! There, I was also recommended to start meditating so I can
calm down my highly irritated nervous system. Although I was very curious about
meditation ever since I was practicing Karate, I was sceptical about trying it
at that time, while the haemorrhoids were causing me so much pain that I
couldn’t even sit to drink a cup of tea. My acupuncturist friend told me to use
a classical meditation stance and I felt quite comfortable with it, regardless
of the haemorrhoidal pain. I also noticed that some pain I had in my wrists was
gone... Then I became more confident about it and started practicing it on a
daily basis. Breathing slowly helps your
heart to calm down and rest. Sometimes, you can even hear your heartbeat. Your
blood flows more peacefully so your veins can benefit from this. You oxygenate
your lungs, your brain and all your cells in your body. All your body is at
rest and it can enter a recovery process. It can acknowledge what is going
wrong and it has time to repair itself, since the rest of the day we use our
bodies and at night we don’t always get a good sleep, because of physical
conditions – pain in the body, heat,
mosquitoes, etc., or because of psychological conditions – stress, traumas, nightmares,
noise, etc. Your body reacts to all
this, and your reactions damage your nervous system. During meditation, you
observe your reactions but you don’t support them, so they cannot harm you. You
also become aware of more and more of your thoughts, how you distort your
memories, your likes and dislikes, your hypocrisies, your thinking process,
your reactions. You start to know yourself better. Therefore you can understand
yourself and feel at peace easier generally, and also when getting in trouble. For me, meditation is more of a medical
practice than of a spiritual one. I know nothing about spirituality... of
course, I read some books, watched some documentaries, talked to some wise
people. But this is all second hand knowledge. I haven’t discovered anything
spiritual on my own.
Around that time, I also quit using all the medication that the doctors
recommended me. Slowly slowly I got
better and I was more and more able to practice Shaolin Qigong and even Shaolin
Kung Fu.
It was then when I learned, on my own, how important it is to warm up and
stretch before every training. Slowly, I have found more confidence in myself
and developed my own training rhythm.
I was also recommended by my acupuncturist friend to practice Tai Chi in order
to enhance my health recovery. Again, I
was a bit sceptical about Tai Chi, since I was used to more full contact
martial arts. But, there was something at that training that helped my ankle
injury a lot. When you move fast, most
of the movement is performed by your muscles and your joints just start and end
the movement, which puts a lot of pressure on them. Also, many sports and
modern physiotherapy practices don’t have such complex knowledge about the link
between breath and movement. Breathing with the movement helps you stay more
focused and puts all your body into the movement. It also creates an internal
effect that can influence the flow of blood and energy. Moving slowly allows your joints to “learn”
how to move so they can align themselves anatomically correct.
After I left Amsterdam, my health was almost completely recovered but since I
wasn’t fortunate enough to arrive to a stable material situation, it
deteriorated a bit. Here in Romania I have nowhere to go to receive acupuncture
treatment and I only use conventional medicine very very rarely or not at all
(for example, buying an anti-fungus cream to clean a skin infection). My only treatment consists of martial arts
training, meditation, vegan food and self-massage and happily I can declare
that my health continues its recovery.
I have learned since a teenager that traditional martial arts training is not
enough for real combat situations, so I chose to also learn boxing and continue
the Parkour training. I love boxing not just for its highly practical use, but
especially for its simplicity. And although so simple, it is not simple at all
to actually put it into practice. A sparring fight is different from a real
fight. Some people may be very good at sparring, but they might not be so good
at fighting. The mind sets are different. When you spar you know that the risks
are limited, when you fight the risks are unlimited. This is why it is very
important to know yourself, know your capacities, know your fears and learn
some more advanced fighting techniques. Because, just to defend yourself is not
very difficult. In an extreme situation, while feeling threatened, almost
anybody can defend himself, but the attacker may get crippled or even die. And
that doesn’t resonate at all to a peaceful loving mindset. So, when you learn traditional martial arts,
you have the opportunity to learn advanced techniques so you can easily deflect
the attacks and stop your opponent, without inflicting too much damage. He may
even get a chance to realize what he’s doing and stop by himself. This is a
level I haven’t yet reached and this is what I call true martial arts!
At this point, I would love to continue my training and sharpen my skills,
learn more, inspire myself and others and share what I already practice with as
many people as possible, since I have seen on my own what a great
therapeutic tool the consistent martial
arts training represents.
Wish you peace!
Wish you peace!









